As we labor among the Portuguese in Africa, we listen to many disheartening stories from those whom we are partnering with. Some months ago, I had the chance to listen to some nationals and laborers, sharing their hearts about past experiences. It was sad, to say the least. I listened, encouraged, and prayed with and for them. It is humbling to realize that we don’t have solutions for most of those aches and pains. We don’t always come with a solution for those kinds of problems up our sleeves.
It has been like that since I first set foot in Southern Africa 33 years ago. One of the comments we often hear is that “the foreigners do not have time to listen to us because they always want to speak!” Another leader told me once, about another group, “oh, they don’t have time for us. Only if we find something for them to speak to us from the platform.” It seems that part of the solution is the same – ministry comes after relationship, after trust is built. To get there, lots of chatting, tea, coffee, and sitting-down-time-to-chat. Sadly, for some, that’s a difficult thing. For them, chatting means that one is doing nothing! But, yes, it pays spending time chatting!